16 years ago you left me the train wreck that is my life. it’s not been easy. it just is what it is.
basic characteristics of a suitable man to date, according to my godbrother: educated stable career of the appropriate age range not bat shit crazy
it’s been a weird summer. a long-short summer. of course, summer has been over for a while. but as i am on the other side of the world, where summer is still very real, i feel i can still talk about it. after japan, i spent some time working at an archiving job in which […]
when i was younger, after a reprimand or lesson of some sort, my grandma used to tell me, “you have to learn how to be a person.” that would be the most direct translation of the chinese. what she meant, of course, was that one has to know how to behave properly, how to treat […]
the weather is cooler and the days are shorter. winter is looming on the horizon. i know. i know. i think winter is looming even when it’s june. but it truly looms now. i also have a cold. i watched oldboy with some friends two nights ago. the final scene caught me unexpectedly. it was […]
it’s been a long time. i feel like it always is. how to start again?